“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” Colossians 3:12
“Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.” Matthew 5:5
“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:22-23
We are looking at the different fruit that are given to Christians as they follow Jesus and are filled with the Holy Spirit. These spiritual fruit, as outlined in Paul’s letter to the Galatian church, are gifts that God produces in His people. As we trust God and follow Him, the Holy Spirit grows these fruit in our lives.
Gentleness, or meekness, is a part of those fruit.
Meekness means to have “strength under control.” A good example would be a strong and powerful horse, which is has been tamed and able to ride. All the strength of the horse is still present, but it is under control.
To exhibit meekness is not a sign of weakness, or about being taken advantage of by other people. The gift of gentleness is the ability to restrain oneself, for the good of other people. It is caring for others and putting them first, in spite of what we could do.
Jesus is the ultimate example of being meek. Although He could demonstrate His might in any way, He chose to control and yield it with His humbly towards others.
As John MacArthur says, meekness in the New Testament is used to describe three attitudes: submissiveness to the will of God, teachableness, and consideration of others.
Since our human nature goes against each of these attitudes, we need to actively pursue God, so He can grow gentleness in our character.